Sex Anxiety

Dear Friends: It is important for men to remember that as women grow older it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as they did when they were younger. When men notice this, they should try not to yell. Let me relate how I handle the situation. When I got laid off from my consulting job and took “early retirement” in April, it became necessary for Nancy to get a full-time job, both for extra income and for health benefits that we need. It was shortly after she started working that I noticed that she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from fishing or hunting about the same time she gets home from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says that she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts supper. I try not to yell, instead I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she finally does get supper on the table. She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. It is now not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after supper. I do what I can by reminding her several times each evening that they aren’t cleaning themselves. I know she appreciates this, as it does seem to help her get them done before she goes to bed. Now that she is older she seems to get tired so much more quickly. Our washer and dryer are in the basement. Sometimes she says she just can’t make another trip down those steps. I don’t make a big issue of this. As long as she finishes up the laundry the next evening I am willing to overlook it. Not only that, but unless I need something ironed to wear to the Monday lodge meeting or to Wednesday’s or Saturday’s poker club or to Tuesday’s or Thursday’s bowling or something like that, I will tell her to wait until the next evening to do the ironing. This gives her little more time to do some of those odds and ends things like shampooing the dog, vacuuming or dusting. Also, if I have had a really good day fishing, this allows her to gut and scale the fish at a more leisurely pace. Nancy is starting to complain a little occasionally. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. In spite of her complaining, I continue to try to offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won’t have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn’t hurt her any, if you know what I mean. When doing simple jobs she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I try not to embarrass her when she needs these little extra rest breaks. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. I tell her that as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me and take her break by the hammock so she can talk with me until I fall asleep. I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Nancy on a daily basis. I’m not saying that the ability to show this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible. No one knows better than I do how frustrating women can become as they get older. However, guys, even if you just yell at your wife a little less often because of this article, I will consider that writing it was worthwhile. Signed, Bob Bob’s funeral was on Saturday, January 25th. Nancy was acquitted Monday, January 27th.

Dude, ill be surprised if this question isnt reported in five minutes lol. I dont know much about this, but rings and stuff dont make you last longer, they might make it better for her, but it wont improve the time. Try the "unsexy thoughts" trick. when u get close, start thinking about baseball, or something gross, u get the idea im sure.

Phone, questions, etc. he shouldn't get mad if its not true. Tell her to not think about it to much because then she'll think that any little thing is a clue when it's not. If there is somethinggoing on it will not stay uncovered for long.

You excite him a lot. That is really good. I would suggest you start before him then ask for "help" to finish the job. You can use water, pillows, stuffed animal, manual, without toys. Try it. Good luck

if u want him to last longer tell him to jerk off ahead of time then wait like 20 minutes, then wen ur gettin into to it itll take him longer

take more time to have foreplay. Try to just have him lay there with him in you and have him massage you until you have an orgasm. As you get to doing it more and more it gets so that you can go a little longer. It does feel good if you can have it in longer. If that doesn't work you can always do it again after the first time if you rest for awhile. I did it three times in one night once.

There are desensitizing creams he could use to delay his orgasms. C0ck rings are also quite popular. However, foreplay and slowing down are two of the most effective ways to make a man last longer.

This is a problem that takes concerted effort on his part, but that you can help make a lot of fun for him too. One reason a lot of guys can't last too long is because they become used to masturbating which usually involves them a.) trying to finish quickly before someone catches them, b.) not having to worry about anyone else's pleasure, focusing all on their own, and c.) using their hand which provides much more pressure (and thus pleasure) than any vagina does. So, one thing you can do is make masturbation a regular part of sex play. Have him stroke himself but do so slowly and with a loose grip. You can also stroke him doing the same, and whenever he feels like he's getting close, slow down. This will help train him to better control the buildup to orgasm, and also help train him to use a better pace. You can also turn these activities into a game, for instance setting a goal for how long he can last without reaching orgasm while you stroke him at a constant rate, and then deciding on what reward he'll get for reaching that goal. He'll then learn to control his level of excitement while still having fun. When having sex, changing positions and activities often can keep him interested (and thus erect) while staving off ejaculation by giving his penis just enough space between activities. For instance, start off by giving him oral (remember, not too much pressure) but when he gets close, stop and have him give oral to you. When having intercourse, give him sexy reminders by whispering in his ear and telling him you like it when he makes it last and takes it slow. If he starts to get close, switch positions - you on top, for instance, gives you control and stops him from racing towards the finish line. This can help him level off without going all the way down to being flaccid, but keeps you in the zone.