I Last Much Longer In Bed Than My Boyfriend What Can I Do

All right, so my boy friend and I were talking on the phone a while ago, and eventually we began talking about our sex life. I was joking about him rolling over immediately afterwards, and said something along the lines of "we go for ten minutes and you're out like a light". He took that as a shot at him not being able to "keep it up", and got defensive. I didn't realize at first that he was insulted and continued to tell him that we usually go for between ten and twenty minutes, and he got angrier. In my opinion, twenty minutes is getting too long to be pleasurable. In many positions, I'll start getting sore around then and I'll just want him to hurry up and finish. To me, that fact would be more insulting than the amount of time he lasts, but in any case, now he's hurt and no amount of apologizing seems to help. What can I do to fix this? Guys. I DO NOT want him to go longer in bed. I accidentally insulted him. I am extremely satisfied with his performance.

When you feel an orgasm coming on, try to take a deep breath, and get rid of it, if you get what I mean. I do that a lot and it delays the climax. However, if that doesn't work for you, you can try to imagine a big, ugly fat lady, or something else that will utterly repulse you.Lol.

I like to just kinda slow down (not stop) and kiss a little more for a bit to get my mind off the pleasure. Another thing to do is stop and switch positions, the break time will give you a sec to catch your um.. breath.

Fore play, fore play, fore play!! Go down on each others no no parts for a while. Then see what you like. If you are doing it in an uncomfortable place, like the back of a volkswagon then it will never be enjoyable. Tell him to rub one out before you guys have sex. Then he will last a lot longer. The way your boyfriend sounds he is underage and you two should be going to church, but then again if you are have sex before marriage you are going to hell anyway. Welcome to the club.

Yup, cardio nutrion, weight training,,,,and finally believe it or not Banana or Walnuts raise seritonin levels too. 30 min is doing just fine. Remember there are other ways to prolong such as oral on her

no it only works for women! it works the muscle around there vagina and it keeps there vag tight,,,, therefore making sex more enjoyable!

Getting him to ejaculate before sex is not the answer because it doesn't solve the problem. The best method is stop and go, but sometimes men even need to have to build up to this. The best way to start, is to get him to NOT move after penetration, and just let him be there. It is a recommended method. When he gets used to just being there without moving, then he begins moving until he feels it build (he has to recognise this before it happens, and pull out). eventually he should be able to go longer without having to stop. 3 - 5 minutes is actually the average time it does take though for a man to ejaculate. Its only a problem, when either of you feel disappointed, but that being said (not talking about you) some women do expect all men to go for hours with out stopping, that is kind of unrealistic too.

He really does have feelings for you. Although a lot of that attraction may be because you two are going through similar stages in life right now. You have to ask yourself do you want someone who has been there and mentor you through or do you want someone where you could equally depend on each other. I think go ahead and least date a little bit. If you want him to respect you then when you say let's hang out actually go on a date. If every time it ends with sex then he may think that is all your relationship is based off of. please answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApJ7w2A.oqecHiZm6uR2uAQazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20081130175323AAoGvaJ