How Do I Make My Boyfriend Last Longer When Were Having Sex

The War At Home March 27th, 2009 The Russians sank a Hong Kong freighter last month, killing the seven Chinese seamen on board. We can live with that—Lenin and Stalin were once the ideological mentors of all Chinese people. The Japanese planted a flag on Diàoyú Island. That’s no big problem—we Hong Kong Chinese love Japanese cartoons, Hello Kitty, and shopping in Shinjuku, let alone our round-the-clock obsession with karaoke. But hold on—even the Filipinos? Manila has just claimed sovereignty over the scattered rocks in the South China Sea called the Spratly Islands, complete with a blatant threat from its congress to send gunboats to the South China Sea to defend the islands from China if necessary. This is beyond reproach. The reason: there are more than 130,000 Filipina maids working as $3,580-a-month cheap labor in Hong Kong. As a nation of servants, you don’t flex your muscles at your master, from whom you earn most of your bread and butter. As a patriotic Chinese man, the news has made my blood boil. I summoned Louisa, my domestic assistant who holds a degree in international politics from the University of Manila, hung a map on the wall, and gave her a harsh lecture. I sternly warned her that if she wants her wages increased next year, she had better tell every one of her compatriots in Statue Square on Sunday that the entirety of the Spratly Islands belongs to China. Grimly, I told her that if war breaks out between the Philippines and China, I would have to end her employment and send her straight home, because I would not risk the crime of treason for sponsoring an enemy of the state by paying her to wash my toilet and clean my windows 16 hours a day. With that money, she would pay taxes to her government, and they would fund a navy to invade our motherland and deeply hurt my feelings. Oh yes. The government of the Philippines would certainly be wrong if they think we Chinese are prepared to swallow their insult and sit back and lose a Falkland Islands War in the Far East. They may have Barack Obama and the hawkish American military behind them, but we have a hostage in each of our homes in the Mid-Levels or higher. Some of my friends told me they have already declared a state of emergency at home. Their maids have been made to shout “China, Madam/Sir” loudly whenever they hear the word “Spratly.” They say the indoctrination is working as wonderfully as when we used to shout, “Long live Chairman Mao!” at the sight of a portrait of our Great Leader during the Cultural Revolution. I’m not sure if that’s going a bit too far, at least for the time being. Guys read this…this is way back of 2005. Another Chip Tsao issue of racism …..Prominent columnist Chip Tsao has hit back at allegations of racism, saying readers angered by his observations on western men losing cachet with local women did not understand his sarcasm. The article “Have Hong Kong girls stopped looking for Mr White?” in last week’s Sunday Morning Post, which cited Tsao’s column, has inspired a flood of passionate responses from readers. Tsao had commented that western men who stayed in Hong Kong after the handover lived in dorms on Lamma Island or stone houses in Sai Kung that people used to “keep pigs in”. He also said expatriate men “clad in T-shirts, thongs and flip-flops” bought beer from the 7-Eleven to get free gifts and were “muscular but did not last long” in bed. A Sunday Morning Post reader from Vietnam, Karl John, said after reading Tsao’s comments: “I cannot find one statement of truth, just racist dogma and general sweeping statements. “It is nothing more than a racially motivated observation that has probably been brought about by Chip Tsao’s inability to attract interest from Hong Kong ladies,” he said, reflecting a typical response of letter writers. For other readers, Tsao’s comments reflected the frustrations they have had with local girls……………

im not trying to be funny but rub the easy one off in the bathroom before you go at it. Also think about stuff that turns you off. They say to think of baseball but what ever works. Cheers.

20 minutes not enough? You mean with forplay? Of course, thats not enough for a horny chick like you. Give him massages and spend more time in foreplay.

Thers really nothing u can do. Its all up to him. Im a guy and usually i try to stay focus or count. that helps me last longer.

Do an exercise called "kegels", this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you'll have the ability to last as long as you want.

Yeah - an internet search should turn up a million ideas and products. But it sounds like he needs to take care of you first then get down to the slow and easy...

He wants education reform and that has been discussed. Most of the world goes to school much longer than we do here. Too much time is spent each fall on reviewing everything that was forgotten during the summer.

try a position where he doesn't feel it as much, you could also try using a thicker condom, or make him think of other things during sex so he doesn't get turned on as much.

what is it your asking? if you have to be intoxicated to have sex for an hour? the answer is no. i bang for an hour sometimes. i dont drink, do drugs , smoke cigarettes, nothing. maybe your a premature ejaculator,(no offense intended) and i guess that makes you feel emasculated, so you need to make excuses for why you cant go the distance. but you need to check your facts, the fact of the matter is everyone is different, some guys go for a few minutes, some go for hours, and everything in between. women are varied too though, some chicks like getting pounded for hours, and some find prolonged sex uncomfortable. the key is to find a sexual partner who likes the same sexual duration as you, so both are consistently comfortable.

life (like sex) is to be enjoyed like a journey, not treated like a destination. relax, think of only her needs - not yours, do not put time constraints on your activities, and enjoy the journey... good luck!